Social anxiety, shyness, lack of confidence

Social anxiety or social phobia is very common. It can affect your career and your ability to enjoy a happy social life or family life.

Most people suffer from this to some extent but it can become a real problem and cause a lot of distress when it begins to interfere with your life and stop you from doing the things you would like to do.

Social anxiety includes any of the following feelings:

  • Fear of being judged

  • Fear of failure

  • Anxious about what others think

  • ‘Performance anxiety’

  • Dislike of public speaking, presentation nerves

  • Shy bladder(find it difficult to use public toilets)

  • Generally nervous in social situations

  • Stammer or stutter.

  • Dislike of using a telephone particularly if being overheard

  • Worrying about how you look, being very critical of your own appearance.

  • A dislike of being put ‘on the spot’ for example speaking up in meetings

  • A dislike of authority

Therapy

You may have had a traumatic or difficult experience in the past which created strong feelings, difficult emotions and anxiety. This could be causing your shyness and lack of confidence. A course of gentle effective therapy will allow you to put the experience into context, allowing you to understand the event with an adult perspective. Children absorb blame and accept reponsibility for bad experiences, once you begin to let this go and feel differently about yourself the symptoms of social anxiety you are experiencing will begin to disappear.

Lifespan Integration is a gentle and effective therapy which can change your reactions to people and events, creating new ways of thinking and feeling.

Melanie Collings, can help you with shyness, social anxiety and lack of confidence in Ipswich and Wetherden near Stowmarket, Suffolk. In easy reach of: Ipswich, Woodbridge, Colchester, Wickham Market, Felixstowe, Framlingham, Lowestoft, Sudbury, Stowmarket, Needham Market, Martlesham, Wetherden, Elmswell, Woolpit, Thurston, Bury St Edmunds.

Call me for a short free initial consultation on 07855 798 789 or email me:

[email protected] melaniecollingstherapy.co.uk

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I am a Level II trained practitioner in Lifespan Integration and a PICT Practitioner, (Parks Inner Child Therapy); I am trained to help people to overcome anxiety, trauma, and the ongoing effects of childhood neglect or inadequate parenting. I trained as a therapist with the International Association of Evidence Based Psychotherapy ; a highly successful organisation of analytical therapists established in 1985 (previously IAPH). Members of the IAEBP are bound by a code of practice and ethics and all members have satisfied the Examination Board of the Association of their knowledge and competence. I am a member of the National Counselling Society.

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07855 798 789

Wetherden, Stowmarket, Suffolk, IP13 3QY

Discretion is my top concern and I assure you that all therapy sessions are completely confidential

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